Posts Tagged ‘sexual healing’

WHOA Baby Wednesday

Wednesday, March 27th, 2013


A team of neurologists found that sexual activity can lead to “partial or complete relief” of head pain in some migraines.
The study, from the University of Munster, Germany, suggests that instead of using a sore head as an excuse to refuse sex, making love can be more effective than taking painkillers.
Their research, reported in Cephalalgia, the journal of the International Headache Society, found that more than half of migraine sufferers who had sex during an episode experienced an improvement in symptoms.
One in five patients left without any pain at all, while others, in particular male sufferers “even used sexual activity as a therapeutic tool”, they added.
They suggested that sex triggered the release of endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers, through the central nervous system, which can in turn reduce, or even eliminate, a headache.
Can you imagine a world where we look to our sexuality as a part of our medicine? 
I have mentioned many times that in the 1850s Victorian Physicians performed vaginal massage (orgasm) to treat female hysteria. The movie "Hysteria" documents this time in history which led to the invention of the vibrator. 
I have also been vocal about sexual wellness as natural ways to improve your immune system, cardiovascular system, and overall well being. 
What makes us resistant and hesitant to embrace this?
In my research and experience coaching women about their sexuality, I have identified the following reasons we resist the power of sexual healing. 
Religious training – interpretations of sex and sexual behavior by many religions teaching repression and shame. This has created confusion in enjoying sex for both young and mature women alike. And if you are unable to enjoy sex, it will not be a healing experience.
Reliance/Dependence on Quick Fix – our trained response when we have a health issue is to see a doctor or take a pill. When is the last time you were ill, and thought sex could help? We are also greatly influenced by the abundance of advertising pharmaceuticals.
Belief systems – We have not been exposed enough to the belief that sex can relieve pain and be healing, even though Marvin Gaye has been singing about it for 30 years. Our belief systems are formed by our experiences and what we are exposed to, and they can change in a moment. 
The good news is the seed has now been planted. Consider the side effects of orgasm, the next time you have a headache. :-)


Bookmark and Share

GUEST APPEARANCE – Healthy Alternatives

Monday, August 27th, 2012

My thoughts on sexual healing are shared with Dr. Jerry Teplitz. His radio show "Healthy Alternatives" provides a needed resource for natural ways to treat health conditions. On this show, he discusses the healthy breakthrus with acupuncture for pain relief. To listen to this and my interview on sexuality, click the button below.




Dr. Jerry V. Teplitz dynamic, educational and entertaining keynotes and seminars have a long-term impact on performance enhancement and productivity.


Dr. Teplitz is author of 8 books and his latest, "Switched-On Selling," became a #1 Amazon Bestseller. He has given over 1700 presentations to more than 1 million people since 1974. Participants report becoming more positive, effictive, focused, energized, and productive.

Dr. Teplitz has earned the Certified Speaking Professional designation from the National Speakers Association. 


Receive a free monthly ezine. Send an e-mail to with SUBSCRIBE in the subject line.

Bookmark and Share

CBL#153 – Sexual Healing as a pathway through Crisis

Saturday, January 21st, 2012

Rod and Anita Nairne share their dramatic story of healing following the death of their only son. They went from being a conservative middle-aged couple to provocative sexual surrogates as they expanded their sexual nature to heal others. It is a remarkable story. They emphasize the importance of fantasy in intimate relationships. Coach Betty shares a WHOA baby where a report from the UK showed that Runway models meet the BMI criteria for anorexia. WHOA Baby!! Listen to the whole show by clicking the listen button.

Life was torn apart by the accidental death of Anita and Rod’s 16-year-old, only child. Their world became a circle with no corner to hide: A noose that slowly, over many years, strangled all desire to maintain their established life. From the beginning, they refused to acknowledge the potential of sexual closure, common to such tragedy. Their intimacy evolved in ways few therapists consider. Constantly expanding their sexual boundaries provided the highly charged spiritual fuel necessary to meld.

Thirteen years after their son’s death, Rod sold his busy chiropractic office. They designed an unorthodox, emotionally charged focus: A profession where they could work together while continuing to help others. Combining their skills of Chiropractic and Art Therapy, Rod and Anita made a dramatic choice to go where few will ever consider; a place far too emotionally dangerous for most. For ten-years they worked as Sexual Surrogates creating a private, safe and clean environment for women, men and couples to experience their sexual fantasies. During those years their relationship flourished. Their sexual knowledge and compassion for others increased dramatically as they physically and emotionally (always together) explored the sexual dreams of thousands.  


Combining these ten-years of sexual research with their journey in search of an existence for their son is the focus of Rod and Anita’s book, Love is For Sharing: A passionate autobiography contrasting their battle through grief with the humor and ever expanding vitality of sex; this is an erotic book for modern couples wishing to break apart stereotyped walls of gender biased communication.


Rod and Anita have been married for 44-years.



Bookmark and Share

CBL#114 -Women BEing Organic and Orgasmic with Zestra

Tuesday, January 25th, 2011

The entire show today was devoted to talking about how women can find more sexual fulfillment and satisfaction.  Rachel Braun Scherl of Semprae Laboratories, producers of natural botanical oil Zestra, was my special guest.  Why is it important for women to pay attention to their own sexual satisfaction?  A healthy and loving sex life translates to a healthy life, emotionally, physically, and socially. As Rachel pointed out on the show, much more attention is given to men’s sexual satisfaction.  Ladies, it is time to start taking responsibility for our own sexual desires and fulfillment.  Would it help you to feel more confident, have an increased self-esteem, and feel courageous to ask for what you want in your life?  That is what greater sexual fulfillment will do for you.  Listen in to the entire show with the whys and hows below.

A seasoned executive, Rachel Braun Scherl has focused on driving growth through innovation, building Fortune 500 brands, revitalizing stagnant brands, and creating opportunities for 20 years.  As President and co-Founder of Semprae Laboratories, Rachel is building on her track record of success, developing teams committed to creating a company that provides essential sexual satisfaction and health products and services to women.

Rachel and Mary Wallace Jaensch, long-time business partners, founded Semprae Laboratories, Inc. with Quaker BioVentures, in 2008.  The company is by women, for women and dedicated to the idea that all women deserve sexual satisfaction.  Semprae’s flagship product, Zestra Essential Arousal Oils, is clinically proven to improve desire arousal and satisfaction for women of all ages and lifestyles.  Find out more, and order a FREE sample of Zestra (shipping charges do apply) by going to  If you type in the special CoachBettyLIVE code Z53FREE, you will save 5% on any order.

Listen in herecoachbetty12511

Bookmark and Share

WHOA Baby #2 – Redefining Seduction

Wednesday, January 12th, 2011

Consider this…Women choose men in relationships.

Yes, that is what Donna Sheehan and Paul Reffell write about in their groundbreaking book, “Redefining Seduction:  Women Initiating Courtship, Partnership and Peace.” Donna and Paul are evolutionary psychologists who have done extensive research, and had their own amazing relationship based on this theory. A premise of their work is that the egg chooses the sperm.

Here is a WHOA Baby sampling from the book:

Redefined Seduction Truths

Women, not men, should make the first move in courtship

Women’s initiative in courtship is not only natural but essential to the survival of the species

Men are in awe of women

Every women possesses the power to select and seduce her chosen mate

Surveys done at college campuses confirm that men would love to be seduced and have women make the first move.

Check it out at

Bookmark and Share

CBL#112 – The 5 step Path to Orgasmic Fulfillment

Tuesday, January 11th, 2011

Here is Coach Betty LIVE in Paris, France as she prepared for the opening of “Living an Organic and Orgasmic Life” at the Theatre La Reine Blanche last July.  Let me tell you, it was an organic and orgasmic time.

This CoachBettyLIVE episode was Coach Betty sharing a bit of her personal journey and outlining the 5 step path to Orgasmic Fulfillment.  You can listen to the entire show below.

Highlights from the show:

5 Easy Principles to Inner Peace, Passion and Pleasure AND Orgasmic Fulfillment

PAUSE is step one to begin to feel more alive sexually right away

PONDER is assessing what is working and your own level of satisfaction

PLAN is how to prepare for YOU and your next sexual experience

PROSPECT is how to dig deep and explore the orgasmic possibilities in life

POP is how you surrender and allow your life to be organic and orgasmic

Whether you are in a long term relationship, newly in love, or single, Coach Betty will guide you to create an inner orgasmic nature that allows you to feel confident and courageous to step out and BE the beautiful you.  If you follow the principles of the 5 Ps to peace, passion and pleasure, you will fall in love with yourself every time you look in the mirror.

Listen here by clicking on the link below.


Bookmark and Share

CoachBettyLIVE #106 – Sustainability and Sex – Healing YOU and the Planet

Friday, December 10th, 2010

Sssssssssssssss…Sustainability and Sex!

My show today highlights an amazing human being, Trathen Heckman.  He is a visionary who takes backyard projects and brings them to the community and beyond.  He will share how he wildly succeeded in the 350 garden challenge earlier this year.  His organization, operates by 4 core words…because every choice matters. He is on the first half hour to promote and encourage a vision of a sustainable and healthy world.  And then you get bonus time with Coach Betty sharing her theories of sexual healing for You, your relationships, and the planet.


Trathen Heckman, is the Co-Founder of, and Board President of  This mover and shaker walks his sustainble conscious talk, and inspires others to do the same.

Listen to this inspiring young man’s journey as he awoke to greater consciousness and is now supporting and empowering individuals to “be the change.”

Hundreds of people participate in his Daily Acts sustainability tours inspiried by “hot-damn-they’re-fun” projects.

Check out more at

Listen in above!

Bookmark and Share

Green Think #60 – A Future of Healthy and Satisfying Sex – are you ready?

Sunday, February 21st, 2010

Whether you are a woman or a man, you will want to know about Zestra, a natural botanical product that enhances women’s sexual satisfaction.  My special guest, Rachel Braun Scherl, is the president of Semprae Laboratories, the company that produces Zestra.  She shares research on women’s sexual satisfaction, looking at it separate and apart from relationships.  The Zestra message to focus on inner sexuality aligns perfectly with Coach Betty’s focus of loving and caring for ourselves first…then we have so much more to give in our relationships, and for our planet.

Listen to this 18 minute podcast and be inspired to change your world from the inside out!

Rachel Braun Scherl

Rachel Braun Scherl

Stanford Business School graduate Rachel Braun Scherl teamed up with colleague Mary Wallace Jaensch over ten years ago to focus on developing and marketing women’s health products.  They have provided guidance and expertise to Fortune 100 firms, including multiple divisions and operating companies of Johnson & Johnson, Wyeth, and GlaxoSmithKline.

In 2008, they purchased Zestra, and are committed to creating a company that provides essential sexual satisfaction health products and services to women.  These two ladies are creating a safe enviornment for women to listen and explore their own sexual satisfaction and pleasure.

Imagining becoming more aligned with your true nature by the exploration of sexual satisfaction?  Sound good…

ZestraJoin the conversation on the blog at, or email Rachel directly at

What are your natural ways to sexual pleasure and satisfactionlet’s keep the conversation going

Bookmark and Share