Soul-hearted self-love is the topic.

Women are becoming aware of how little we know about our bodies and our sources of pleasure. Coach Betty Louise presented a WHOA Baby this week from an blog article on "The Internal Clitoris." It may shock and amaze you to learn that the pleasure organ for a woman, the clitoris, is something that has just recently been studied. Medicine did not feel it important to understand as it only served the function of sexual pleasure for a woman. How much good medicine for our planet is there when women are feeling beautiful and sexual? 

In addition on this episode, Dr. Debra Reble, in her new book "Soul-hearted Partnerships: Creating the Ultimate Experience of Love, Passion, and Intimacy," writes that we have 1000s of soul mates in our lifetime. The ones that become soul-hearted partnerships are those where each individual does the inner work of soul-hearted self love. This can be romantic partners, business partnerships, family relationships, etc. To listen to all the gems of wisdom shared, click the listen button below.

Debra L. Reble, Ph.D., ia a Cleveland-based author. therapeutic intuitive, and psychologist, who conducts a private practice and facilitates workshops and seminars on personal transformation and well-being. She also is the founder of HeartPaths, a producer of materials inspiring full self-expression, and a director of Foundation in Light, an international nonprofit educational organization furthering spiritual growth and self-realization. In the provocative new model of relationship set forth in Soul-Hearted Partnership, longtime counselor Debra L. Reble, Ph.D., shows how dreams of amazing relationships come true when individuals cultivate first a soul partnership with themselves. Soul-Hearted Partnership lays the groundwork by presenting a series of spiritual principles for integrating body, heart, spirit, and soul and intertwining the combined energies with those of a loved one, while acknowledging the shared energy source.  www.debrareble.com and www.soulheartedpartnership.com

How can we go from an ordinary life to an extraordinary life?

Answer: By unlocking the organic orgasmic goddess within, and creating extraordinary relationships.

On this episode, I share a WHOA Baby from Erik Anderson, author of "The Monogamy Gap: Men, Love, and the Reality of Cheating." He writes, "Monogamy is failing men. Not only is it failing them, but it's a 'socially compelled sexual incarceration' that can lead to a life of anger and contempt." It is a strong statement, and no matter where you stand on it, the facts are certainly pointing to dishonesty and cheating in most relationships. WHOA Babies are about paying attention in new ways. If women felt deeply beautiful and sexual and passionately in love with themselves, I wonder how they would feel about monogamy. Listen to the show, and let me know what you think. Click the listen button below.

Also on this show, the beautiful Amanda Elo'esh Johnsen joins me to talk "Sexual Bliss through Good Housekeeping." Cleansing inside and out as a practice of living. One of the inspiration gems Amanda shared was "Abundance can be had by receiving what is being given." There are so many more to come as together we have created a juicy call titled "Unlocking the Organic Orgasmic Goddess Within." Details below. If you resonated with this interview, you will not want to miss this FREE call.

Unlocking the Organic Orgasmic Goddess Within

Tuesday, March 6th

1:00 pm – 2:00 pm PT

FREE – Register Here

What happens when positive Coach Betty Louise has a dark day? Well that is what I shared on the show today. Last week, I had a physically painful day where my joints were inflamed and painful and I could not muster a positive thought in my head. I did not even recognize myself…I kept saying "Who am I?" Well who I was began to expand in that moment by embracing my darkness and all the vulnerability and truth that lived there. How did I make it organic and orgasmic? Listen to the show to find out.

Christopher "Divinity" Dines was my special guest, and he spoke about when a woman owns her inner beauty, then that beauty shines out at the world. "Follow Your Heart," and ask yourself every morning and every night, "How would I feel if I unconditionally loved the way I look?" were a couple of the gems he shared. To listen to the whole show, click the listen button above.

Christopher Francis Dines, (born August 19th, 1983) is an English life
coach, author and former House DJ. Dines is the author of "A Ticket to
Prosperity". Christopher's music alias was Chris Lopez and Splash.
Dines career took off DJing at profiled club nights: City Loud at
Turnmils, Garage City and Defected in the House at Pacha in his late teens
and early twenties. Dines worked with chart-topping UK dance music trio
Afro Medusa and remixed some of their singles "Pasilda 2"(Come A Little
Closer) and "Beautiful Thing." Christopher travelled the world as a DJ
particularly in Asia: China, Hong Kong, Thailand and Koh Samui. Dines left
the dance music industry in 2006 to become a life coach.

Dines is the author of "A Ticket to Prosperity"; which is based
on spiritual success principles and has been endorsed by Richard Cole
(former tour manager for Led Zeppelin, Eric Clapton, The Who and Ozzy
Osbourne), Daniel C. DiCriscio, Michael J McEvoy, Eddie Gordon, Michael
Cogdill, Jon Mack and Danny Rampling. Daniel C. DiCriscio was quoted:
"Christopher Dines brings a new energy that can elevate oneself to
places one thought was unattainable." Dines is the author of
"The Mystery of Belief: How to Manifest Your Dreams," which is
based on creating self-belief. Dines coaches and speaks at public events
and seminars on the topic of motivational concepts.

To learn more, www.ChristopherDines.com.

Are you ready to live an alive and juicy life? 

This is one of the healthiest feelings inside of your body. It's good for your overall well-being, AND speifically your immune and cardiovascular system. This is what I call "inner sexuality." It is healing. Marvin Gaye has been singing about since the 80s, and the song is on the list of 500 ALL TIME Greatest Hits. Coach Betty Louise explores the idea of using pleasure as medicine in this episode. What does it require? …honesty with your inner self.

In the second half of the show, Lori Fields, Founder of REALBeautyIs.com shares her passionate message for women "YOU matter. No matter what you are doing in your life, it matters." 

Lori is a NYS License Clinical Social Worker, Internet entrepreneur, health and fitness enthusiast and Founder of the Real Beauty Is Movement. She has dedicated her life to teaching women how to feel good about themselves by tapping into their power, living their life on purpose and defining beauty on their own terms.

Lori's innovative method for empowering women derives from her background in clinical social work, health and fitness and entrepreneurship. Through her compassion, focus, clarity, and determination, Lori creates a supportive space for women to awaken into their most beautiful and confident self. 

You can learn more at www.realbeautyis.com.

Did you know that your inner world actually creates your outer world? All aspects of your inner world, peace, happiness, truth, strength, beauty, and sexuality can be cultivated separately and feed the overall inner world. Coach Betty Louise shares more on that in the first part of the show.

Special guest, Laura Fenamore, CEO of Body Image Mastery, shares her amazing journey from 4th grade obesity to rock bottom drug addict at 24 years old to choosing life and transformation. Look at the photos below…they tell the story. Here is a woman who dug deep and found her inner beauty. To listen to the whole show, click the listen button below.

Weight Release & Body Image Coach Laura Fenamore is on a mission to guide women around the world to love what they see in the mirror, one pinky at a time, so they can unlock the secrets to a healthy weight and start loving their lives as soon as possible.

Her popular Body Image Mastery program is celebrated by hundreds of women who have lost weight, reclaimed self-esteem, and started bold, happy lives with Laura and her proven programs as their guide.

Having overcome her own battle with addiction, obesity, and eating disorders, Laura released over 100 pounds 24 years ago to begin a journey to guide other women to live more joyous, balanced lives. The author of the forthcoming book Weightless: 7 Tools to Love Your Body (and Lose Weight For Good) and a frequent contributor to local and national media – including First for Women, Ladies Home Journal, the Dr. Pat Show and blog contributor on Betty Confidential, Daily Love and Positively Positive.  Laura believes that self-love and self-care is where the transformation begins. Learn more about her programs, invite her to speak or contribute to your program or conference, or place pre-orders for her book today at OnePinky.com.

Rod and Anita Nairne share their dramatic story of healing following the death of their only son. They went from being a conservative middle-aged couple to provocative sexual surrogates as they expanded their sexual nature to heal others. It is a remarkable story. They emphasize the importance of fantasy in intimate relationships. Coach Betty shares a WHOA baby where a report from the UK showed that Runway models meet the BMI criteria for anorexia. WHOA Baby!! Listen to the whole show by clicking the listen button.

Life was torn apart by the accidental death of Anita and Rod’s 16-year-old, only child. Their world became a circle with no corner to hide: A noose that slowly, over many years, strangled all desire to maintain their established life. From the beginning, they refused to acknowledge the potential of sexual closure, common to such tragedy. Their intimacy evolved in ways few therapists consider. Constantly expanding their sexual boundaries provided the highly charged spiritual fuel necessary to meld.

Thirteen years after their son’s death, Rod sold his busy chiropractic office. They designed an unorthodox, emotionally charged focus: A profession where they could work together while continuing to help others. Combining their skills of Chiropractic and Art Therapy, Rod and Anita made a dramatic choice to go where few will ever consider; a place far too emotionally dangerous for most. For ten-years they worked as Sexual Surrogates creating a private, safe and clean environment for women, men and couples to experience their sexual fantasies. During those years their relationship flourished. Their sexual knowledge and compassion for others increased dramatically as they physically and emotionally (always together) explored the sexual dreams of thousands.  

Combining these ten-years of sexual research with their journey in search of an existence for their son is the focus of Rod and Anita’s book, Love is For Sharing: A passionate autobiography contrasting their battle through grief with the humor and ever expanding vitality of sex; this is an erotic book for modern couples wishing to break apart stereotyped walls of gender biased communication.

Rod and Anita have been married for 44-years.  www.loveisforsharing.com.

Dr. Taffy Wagner, author of "Bride and Groom Money Talk FAQ," shared an important view on how money affects inner beauty and sexuality and visa versa. Coach Betty Louise absolutely loves her advice to women getting married with past financial issues to step up with courage, confidence and grace and say, "Honey, I want our relationship to work. I want to be totally honest because I love you so much. This is my past history of money…" How do we get to that honest place of communicating in relationships? By tuning to our inner beauty and sexuality…Coach Betty Louise gives you the 5 Ps to peace, passion, and pleasure as a WHOA Baby on this show in the last segment. Enjoy the whole show by clicking on the listen button below.

Dr. Taffy Wagner is a Certified Educator in Personal Finances, Money and Marriage Advocate and an Ordained Minister. She is also the author of "Bride and Groom Money Talk FAQ," "Debt Dilemma," and "Homebuyer’s Helper (How to Have and Hold on to your House)." Dr. Wagner has been interviewed by The Wall Street Journal, The Denver Business Journal, Bob Brinker Money Talk, AOL Black Voices, The Associated Press, US News and World Report, Called Magazine and Woman’s Day regarding handling money before and after saying “I Do”. She provides premarital and post-marital financial counseling. She conducts seminars for individuals, couples, single parents and small groups regarding personal finances, home ownership and women’s issues. Dr. Wagner is the financial columnist for www.BlackBride.com, www.Adviceandinfo.com and a contributing writer to Black Bride and Groom Magazine. She holds a Doctorate of Ministry in Biblical Counseling, Master’s degree in Human Resources Management, a Bachelor’s degree in Business Admin/Management and an Associates degree in Paralegal Studies. She is a veteran of the United States Armed Forces. Dr. Wagner resides in the metro Denver area with her husband, Eric and their twins, Erica and Cody.  

Coach Betty Louise takes a reflective look back at some of the gems from her amazing guests in 2011. Her assessment results in a prescriptive pathway to living an organic and orgasmic life through the place of inner beauty and sexuality. 

Highlights:

Beauty is an inside job, as Cynthia Desoto, author and beauty research, explained from her book "Changing the Way the World Thinks About Beauty." She shared that when directly asked what attributes make a person beautiful, only 15% of the answers were about physical appearance. What about the other 85%?

Karen Carlson, Nurse Practitioner from the University of Washington's Women's Health Clinic, said that regular sex is as important to overall health as eating and sleeping. Imagine giving sex the same attention?

Nicole Daedone, author of "Slow Sex: the Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm," believes that women are hungering for orgasms, just not what is on the menu. Her Foundation, One Taste, teaches a practice of orgasmic meditation to both men and women.

When we discover this place of inner beauty and sexuality, then we can bring that juicy energy to all of our relationships. It allows us to be receptive to the beautiful people we have in our lives. Alison Armstrong, designer of the course "Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women," says we must honor ourselves to learn receptivity.

These are just a few of the goodies…listen to the entire show by clicking the listen button below.